11 scarves in 11 styles: Jazz up your natural hair

Are you one of those girls or women who only wear scarves on bad hair days? Well, i'm here to tell you that scarves can also be a great accessory and protective gear for your hair. I wear scarves as accessories on days I don't feel like wearing a headband, flower or any hair piece. I also wear it outdoor in the winter and summer season.

In the winter time, I would wear a thick scarf on extremely cold days. I do this to protect my hair from freezing and breaking off with the strong winds. While in the summer time, I would just throw a thin scarf on my head on hot days as i'm afraid the sun would fry my hair and make it feel "strawlike".  And since I styled my hair before leaving the house, I might remove the scarf once i'm indoor.

So if you have a bunch of scarves just sitting in your cupboard or elsewhere around the house, why not collect them all together and start wrapping them around your head to see what you'll come up with. And if you can't think of anything, you can start with the 11 styles below and remember to share pictures of your beautiful styles on my facebook page.

Style 1
Bomb Girls/1940s Inspired

Style 2
Afro Vintage Inspired

Style 3
Twist out pot

Style 4
Twistout flower pot + Bangs
Style 5
Nollywood Inspired
Style 6
All around Indian (Bengal) Tiger
Style 7
Ancient Chinese plus Bump
Style 8
Ruffles

Style 9
Silky Bow

Style 10
Ankara with a tail

                                                                   Style 11
Enchanted Forest Updo
My appologies for the cheesy names, feel free to suggest a better name for a particular style. 

Which is your favourite? mine is style 1, one of my go to styles

Essential Oils versus Carrier Oils for Natural Hair Care

Hello you beautiful person, you!

In my last post about what to put in your Spray Bottle, I mentioned oils as one of the ingredients usually found in the mixture for your natural hair care regimen. Kenyan Mystic also showed us how to do a Hot Oil Treatment earlier this week. In my post, I mentioned the fact that you should know which oils are essential oils versus carrier oils, as that knowledge would determine how much of an oil to use, and whether or not you can apply it directly to your hair. So let's get cracking on this topic, shall we?

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CARRIER OILS
These are also known as base oils, and they are typically derived from the fatty parts of nuts, seeds or plants. They usually don't have a fragrance (except for the faint smell of olive oil), and they can be used for aromatherapy and cooking. They are used to dilute and "carry" essential oils for use in spa treatments, hair care, and more. Some examples of carrier oils include:

  • Olive Oil
  • Castor Oil
  • Coconut Oil
  • Jojoba Oil
  • Sweet Almond Oil
  • Grapeseed Oil
  • Avocado Oil
  • Flaxseed Oil
  • Hazelnut Oil
They are great for moisturizing your hair, in that they seal in moisture. Remember, moisture = WATER. Oils do not moisturize, but they aid in keeping your hair moisturized. Carrier oils can be stored in clear or dark bottles. They don't evaporate, but can spoil over time.

ESSENTIAL OILS
These are volatile oils derived directly from plants. The reason why they are called 'Essential' is because they carry the "essence" of the plants they are derived from. They have the distinct scent of the plants they come from. They can be used for perfumes, soaps, incense, and when mixed with carrier oils or water, cosmetics and beauty products. They should never be applied directly to hair or skin, as they can cause severe irritation, allergic reactions, and can be toxic. Some of these are dangerous during pregnancy too. Examples of essential oils include:
  • Carrot Oil
  • Cedarwood Oil
  • Tea Tree Oil
  • Peppermint Oil
  • Rosemary Oil
  • Lavender Oil
They have many benefits from dealing with itchy scalps to eliminating dandruff, to stimulating hair growth. Again, they must be diluted with a carrier oil before being applied to your natural hair. Never use more than a few DROPS!!! Essential oils are to be stored in dark containers, as light/sunlight can adversely affect them. In addition, they evaporate and lose their therapeutic benefits, but don't spoil over time.

I didn't want to bombard you with too much information this time around, so maybe in my next post, I'll have a list of the different oils commonly used for natural hair and their specific benefits. 

What oils have you used or do you use in your natural hair care regimen? Olive oil is a staple for me, and I recently added castor oil, tea tree and cedarwood oils. 

Diary of an Honest Naturalista: Week 12

Dimeji... yes, that's his name. The very recent boyfriend whose name I have been hiding from you all, lol. Dimeji and I went for a party on Saturday.What I went through is better narrated than experienced.

I did a twist out, derived out of a 10-day old twist. Because my hair can be quite frizzy at times, my curls were not so defined. And since my hair is not so long, I decided to pin it in one or two places, so it was like an updo, but not quite one, if you get what I mean.

I could swear that my hair was looking fly when we left the house. If it wasn't, Dimeji would have said something about it. He could be very blunt at times.

When we got to the part, he introduced me to Tony, a very close friend of his, and his girlfriend, Yemisi. After the initial 'Hi's and 'Hello's, we settled down, and started some small talk. I noticed that Yemisi was casting glances at my hair. At first, I thought she was admiring it, but after some whispers here and there into Tony's ears, I began to think otherwise. I started to feel uneasy, and couldn't converse as freely as I had previously been doing.

Out of the blues, Yemisi asked if I had anything against making my hair. She asked if I had my hair this way because of religion, the church I attend, or a revolution I was joining. To say I was speechless was an understatement. I mean, I know people could be rude to natural-hair ladies, but for crying out loud, she made these statements right in front of our boyfriends! Was she trying to bring me down or what? I mean, my relationship is just a month old, and this is not the kind of drama I need in front of my boyfriend now.

I did not answer her, I just gave her a fake smile, and looked at her well-manicured nails, fake lashes, and lace wig. She noticed the direction of my eyes, and in turn started at my short unpainted nails. After five minutes, I couldn't stand it any more. I told Dimeji to take me home, as I was unwell. He didn't protest, since he already sensed my uneasiness.

When I settled into his car, I stylishly looked at my hair in the side mirror, and noticed that it was no more the way it was when I left home. It had so many flyaways, due to frizziness. The slightly cool weather had had its way with the hair, and the previously undefined curls now even looked like a soaked sponge.

But so what? So what my hair wasn't looking fly any more? Did that warrant such comment from her? I hope I won't be seeing her any more. Arrant nonsense!

Deep Conditioning for your Teeny Weeny Afro (TWA)

Hello Naturalistas,

A while ago I blogged about when i discovered the wonders of Deep conditioning before I cut my hair again.

Since I cut my hair I have not tried to DC, but recently I decided start a regimen that included DC every 2 weeks (for no reason). My hair is growing and combing in the mornings is getting as it be.


Instead of the "mixture" I normally use (Check here) I got the African Naturalistas Deep Conditioning reatment Mayonnaise and compared to my mixture. Oh boy, this was a great relief.

This made the steps less messier, faster, not mushy. Here is what I did:


  • Put some AN Coconut oil evenly on my hair
  • Put the DC batter around my hair and made sure I got every part of my hair
  • Put a plastic bag over it and my swimming cap (Whatever works for you) 
The swimming cap will sha be useful for something abi?
 This was a friday night so,


  •  I let it 'cook' over the night 
you know something totally amazing about this?

IT DID NOT DRIP!! I Meaan. This was my first DC that did not drip, exactly why I decided to keep it till the next morning.

Removing the cap in the morning. See curls? :)
I still did my chores before I went to Shampoo and condition my hair, still no drip.

The other DCs I've done before this one, was always messy and I won't hear the last of it from my mum telling me to stop wasting her honey. Compared to this?
Woooshhh ^_^

I Love this product.



Results of my DC, then wash 'n' go. See my sis bantu knot? ^_^
I am definitely using this over and over again. Have you tried the African Naturalistas Deep Conditioning Treatment Mayonnaise? Yes? Please, lets know what you think.

No? You still like your dripping DC-ing abi? What are you waiting for?

Come and give your testimony when you are done :)


Hot Oil Treatment on Natural Hair



   Hi Ladies! Hope you have all managed to remain splendid and wonderful! Today am sharing with you my very simple Hot Oil Treatment. This treatment has helped me overtime to achieve a natural shine to my hair, strengthen my strands and reduce tangles and knots which has greatly help me in reducing breakage! Enjoy Ladies!











Two new products in the African Naturalistas range

Hi everyone, I am so so so excited (raise that to a million powers). I can't remember when last I have been this excited, lol. Anytime I have the opportunity to meet a naturalista's need, it gives me great joy. I am sure many naturals can testify to that fact.

We have launched to new products into the African Naturalistas range.

1. African Naturalistas Twist and Curl Pudding.



Gone are the days when Nigerians have to depend on styling gels to do twists and twist outs. We now have our own pudding to do styles like twists, twistouts, and define our curls, etc. This has really gotten me excited because as you know, I like to look out for the immediate needs of naturalistas in Nigeria and Africa, and find out what way to best meet it. And I know that many naturalistas need this pudding to achieve fabulous twists and curls.We decided to make this in our biggest jar size (473ml), and it costs just N1,500.00 for now. To find out more details about this product, click here.

2. African Naturalistas Leave-In Conditioner.




To be very honest, we should have rolled this product out a long time ago, but you must have noticed that we roll products out in stages, and a regular and deep-conditioner was more needed in at that time. So for all the Leave-In Conditioner lovers, this product is just for you. It comes in a 300ml bottle, and costs just N1,300.00 for now. To find out more details about this product, click here.

So there you have it. You can see that we have the best interest of every natural hair lady in Africa at heart. Get these products, and let us know how you feel about them. For more details on our other products and how to order them, click here.

Caring for your scalp, naturally

Hi Naturalistas

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When it comes to growing healthy hair, you need a healthy scalp. The scalp is where the hair follicles are found - the roots of your hair. If your scalp has issues, your hair journey will not be as hitch free as it could be.


I was inspired to write this post because I once visited a stylist who told me that washing my hair involved "washing the hair" in the real sense of it, scalp Not inclusive. She was trying to educate me on the need to just cowash my hair and then go for scalp treatments once in a while. I wanted to install some braids but I wanted to have a clean wash first. How I ended up being misled into not washing my scalp thoroughly before braiding the hair still eludes me. I had the worst experience. The hair started itching me from day 2 and when I took down the braids, I noticed some white flakes on my scalp.

That experience taught me exactly how important a healthy scalp is for growing healthy hair. The discomfort was so unbearable, I nearly cut my hair again :)

Here are a few tips to help you get by:


- Always ensure to clean your scalp well. To get rid of the dead cells and dirt, you need to wash it well and regularly. If you do not wash it, the products you used for the hair will build and manifest as dirts 


- Know what works best for you. Some people need very mild shampoos because of their very sensitive scalp. If you are one of those, make sure you do not irritate your scalp with harsh products.


- When it comes to people with natural hair, you have to pay special attention to dandruff. It can manifest in no time. People that treat their hair with chemicals may not have this issue because the chemicals constantly compete with these dry cells, with natural hair you have to constantly choose products that possess this ability. 


- Moisturizing and oiling your scalp will reduce the excess dryness and scarring


- Massage your scalp to allow rapid blood flow. This will help make the cells more healthy.


- Once in a while, give yourself a nice scalp treatment. Visit a good natural hair salon and let an expert give you a good treat. 


Remember to keep your heads high and rock your kinks with pride


JB

Twitter: @janylbenyl

African Naturalistas Leave-In Conditioner - 300ml.


Our Leave-In Conditioner has been manufactured to help you achieve the goal of softer hair in a short time. With a combination of the finest blends of natural ingredients and quarts, it is sure to leave your hair feeling smooth and soft.

Directions
For Daily application, apply generously through hair, leave in, and style as desired.
For wash days, shampoo and rinse thoroughly, apply generously  throughout the hair, and leave in.

Ingredients
Aqueous (Water, Aqua Purificada, Purified), Glycerine, Cetyl Alcohol, Centrimonium chloride, Glycerol Monostearate, Cocos Nucifera (Coconut) Oil, Olea Europaea (Olive) Fruit Oil,  Simmondsia Chinensis (Jojoba) Seed Oil, Aloe Vera, Vitamin E, Urtica Diotica (Stinging Nettle), Guar Gum, Euxyl, Fragrance

It's time to wash your Natural hair, weave, braids, cornrows when...

How would you know when  it's time to wash your hair? Below, I have listed 5 symptoms to watch out for when it's time for our hair to be washed.
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1. Your scalp starts to feel itchy: By itchy, I mean uncontrollable itchiness which doesn't seem to stop. When the scalp is clogged up with grease, oils and other products we layer on it, it can start to feel uncomfortable overtime. Clogged follicles may impede hair growth because each individual baby hair strands have to fight through layers of gunk to grow out of the scalp.

2. You see white particles on your roots: These "white stuff" could either be dandruff, product build up from the multiple products that we layer on our scalp, fungus or what I like to call "product conflict" (when two different products don't mix well together).

3. Your scalp is excessively greasy: When we apply grease, petroleum jelly, and/or mineral oil based products on our hair and scalp, our scalp and hair will forever remain greasy due to the fact that these product only coat the surface of the hair. Eventually, gravity would allow these oils to melt and make their way to the scalp where they will form a bed of oil. This makes the scalp excessively greasy, clog and even irritated.
4. Your hair starts to smell: the end result of the first three points would be a stinky head of hair. Now, you may not be able to smell your hair because you've been desensitized to it, so you might think this point does not apply to you. But if you have a sensitive nasal system like I do, you will be able to tell. Just in case you're not sure, you could ask a close friend or family to let you know. You can also smell your head gear and pillow for any strong odour. If you workout or sweat a lot and/or wear weaves, your hair will smell if it's not washed often.

5. Its been a while since your last wash: While it's possible to not experience any of the points listed above, your hair will still need regular cleansing regardless of the fact that it "looks" clean.
What to do to rid your hair and scalp of these symptoms

1. To rid the hair and scalp of itchiness, grease, residue and strong odour, you will need to cleanse your scalp with a good shampoo or other form of hair cleansers, followed with a deep conditioning treatment to restore moisture back to your hair. If you happen to have braided extensions, you can go read this post on how to wash your hair in braids.
For added benefits, I recommend doing an Apple Cider Vinegar (ACV) rinse to balance the pH level of your scalp and to kill any fungus which couldn't be washed off with a shampoo. You will need to mix one part ACV with one part water and pour it on freshly washed and conditioned hair while massaging your scalp. Let the ACV sit in your hair for a while before rinsing it off with water.

 2. To help with symptom #1,2,&4, I recommend adding few drops (5 drops each) of tea tree oil and peppermint oil to your hair cleanser to help kill any mould in your hair. You can also add these essential oils to your scalp oil for the added anti-itch, anti-dandruff and anti-fungi benefits.

3. For a sweet smelling hair, you can also add few drops of scented essentials oils such as Lemongrass oil, Lavender oil and any other scented oil of your choice to your leave-in conditioner and hair oil. Please note that these oils will only "do their job" when the hair is clean.

The Mane Captain

What should be in your natural hair care spray bottle?

It's the end of another week, thank goodness! Today I want to talk about the SPRAY BOTTLE, and what to put in it.


Every where you go looking for natural hair care, you will ALWAYS see the Spray Bottle mentioned. It's on all the natural hair blogs, vlogs on youtube, shows, magazines, etc. Every woman with natural hair (or 98%, I think) has heard of the spray bottle. They can come in large, medium or travel sizes. I personally have a travel size that I carry in my purse with me, and is airplane-compliant. But have you ever wondered what "should" go into your spray bottle? This seems like a very trivial, easy matter - the contents in your spray bottle. However, everyone's needs are different and I wouldn't expect to have uniformity across the board. I'll just give a little insight on the general things you can find...

  1. WATER
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    Aqua! Yes, good old H20 is the very first ingredient to put in your spray bottle? Why? Because our hair needs moisture, and moisture comes from WATER. Living in Nigeria, I find that taking water directly from the faucet/tap may not be the best idea. So I use only bottled water.
  2. GLYCERINE
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    Glycerine is a humectant, which means that it is a substance that is used to keep things, like our hair, moist. It draws in, or attracts  and retains moisture from the air. For people who experience dry weather like winter or dry season, it is especially necessary to include glycerine in your regular hair care routine.
  3. OILS

    This is where spray bottle contents begin to differ. With the plethora of available oils out there, from carrier to essential oils, the combinations can go into the hundreds, if not thousands! YOU basically choose what oils you want to use, based on your preferences and hair needs. My main constant is olive oil. On occasion, I will throw in a dash of castor oil, coconut oil, tea tree oil, cedarwood oil, etc. Again, there's no one-size-fits-all. Figure out what your hair needs and attend to it lovingly.

    *Remember that you only need a few drops of your essential oils in your mixture, so as not to damage your hair.* I'll probably write a post on Carrier Oils vs Essential Oils next week. Yay or Nay?
  4. LEAVE-IN-CONDITIONER



    Finally, I add in a little bit of leave-in-conditioner to help retain moisture in my hair. Some people leave this out, which is fine. If you do use leave-in conditioner in your mixture, you can use whatever leave-in you regularly use. 
And these, ladies and gentlemen, are the contents of my spray bottle! What do you put in yours? 

Spritz, Spray and Splash Away!


Diary of an Honest Naturalista: Week 11

I want to officially apologise to everyone that has been reading my diary. I have put the cart before the horse. For the past 10 weeks, I have been honestly documenting my experiences about my natural hair, and how it has been affecting different parts of my life, but I have never really mentioned who I am.

My name is Anna, a 24-year old Edo girl, born and bred in Lagos. I am the third out of five children of three guys and two girls. I am the only natural hair lady in family, and as of now, haven't received any support from any of my family members in respect to my decision to go natural. Maybe if I had been close my sister, who is the first child, things would have been a little bit different.

As you all know by now, I am working temporarily in a small company, before I go for my NYSC this November. I studied Banking and Finance, and from what I have gathered, can work in any kind of company with my degree.

As at this moment, my hair length falls is in between short and medium length. You know that frustrating stage, where  your hair is not short enough to rock a teeny weeny afro, but not long enough to park into one, without you having to use pins to clip it here and there, thereby letting the whole world think you are trying too hard to put your hair into a bun? Yes, that frustrating stage is where I am right now.

I won't say I am a talkative, but I am definitely not quiet. I know how to express myself with clarity when necessary. I pick my battles cautiously, and basically don't really care what people think, well, to a large extent. I try my best to be good, but I am not perfect, so I make mistakes at times.

This is all I can think of for now. Many other things will be revealed in future diary editions. And just in case, you are new to my diary, click here to catch up on the recent interesting events in my life.

Now that I have done the proper introduction, and you now know a little more about me, the regular diary will resume next week.

Mane Matters with Ebun Oluwole

Hello Naturalistas,

I have read this girl's blog for a while and seen how she religiously and passionately talks about her natural hair journey and I just knew I had to feature her. Meet Ebun. 


Enjoy.


AN: Can you tell us who you are and what you do?


Ebun: My name is Ebun Oluwole. I'm a Student, Writer/Blogger, DIY junkie and a sucker for all things natural.




AN: What are your thoughts about natural hair?


Ebun: I think natural hair is God-given. We can't run or hide from it, no matter how many bales of weaves we use. It's nature. It's what you were born with.

AN: Why did you decide to go natural?


Ebun: Honestly, first of all, it's versatility. Fortunately for me, I happen to stumble on a few hair blogs in my quest for healthy hair care for my relaxed hair. And then natural hair just popped up and sparked my interest. The updos and pin-ups particularly attracted me, and I haven't tuned back since then. Apart from that, the fact that I could pay more attention to my hair just took me on. I didn't have to depend on hair stylists anymore.

AN: Did you do a BC or you transition?



One Month later
Ebun: I'm currently transitioning for a year by God's grace. *fingers crossed*


AN: How long has the transition been?

5th Month

Ebun: Since February, it's been 6 months.

AN: What has your experience been?


Ebun: Wow! At first I left my hair out for like 3months; no protective styling whatsoever. Basically i wanted to study my hair. I remember standing in front of the mirror every week to check the level and pace
of growth. Eventually I got tired, and hid them in braids. I realised then I didn't think too much about it. Apart from the slow growth  and breakage, it's been pretty stress-free.


AN: What was/is your biggest fear about going Natural?

Ebun: Hmm. I'd get tired and just shave it all off or  lock it.

AN: Do you think you are in it for the long haul or is it just a phase?


Ebun: For life mehn hopefully! You have no idea how long I've been admiring those ladies with BSL.


AN: There are people that definitely have negative comments about you hair, how do you deal with that?

Ebun: For example, my mum. It still hasn't sunk in. She hates the fact that my braids and corn rows don't last. LOL. She even offered me a relaxer. Basically, when I made the decision, I put my foot down. Being so damn strong-willed, they don't have a chance of convincing me otherwise. As for my friends,the ones that know are cool with it.

AN: What's your must have product and accessory?


Ebun: My Water/Glycerine mix as Leave-in and beanie for those bad hair days.

AN: What's your advice to anyone planning to ditch relaxers?


Ebun: Oh sure! Come join us. There's plenty of room for you. LOL. Anyways, basically, make up your mind, don't just join our bandwagon because it's the fad or anything.  Have a concrete reason and just go
with it. Express yourself. Be versatile. Life's too short. And please read! Take advantage of the tons of hair blogs and videos for guidance and you'll be just fine. Trust me.

AN: Thank you for your time.

Ebun: My pleasure.


Have a wonderful Wednesday. 

African Naturalistas Twist and Curl Pudding - 473ml.




Our Twist and Curl pudding has been manufactured to cater for the curling needs of your hair. It helps with curl definitions, and achieving fabulous and well-defined twists and twistouts. Enriched with Vitamin E, it has been fortified with other ingredients that strengthens and promotes hair growth.

Directions
After washing hair, and applying African Naturalistas Leave-In conditioner, work Twist ‘n’ Curl Pudding throughout each section of hair, and twist or style as desired.

Ingredients
Aqueous (Water, Aqua Purificada, Purified), Butyrospermum Parkii (Shea Butter), Cocos Nucifera (Coconut) Milk, Aloe Vera, Glycerine, Carbomer 940, Polysorbate 20, Glycerol Monostearate, Cocos Nucifera (Coconut) Oil, Olea Europaea (Olive) Fruit Oil,  PVP, Guar Gum, Triethanolamine, Vitamin E, Urtica Diotica (Stinging Nettle), Euxyl, Fragrance

No Fuss Formal Natural Hair Updo.

Hi loves! Hope you are well? I want to share with you today a simple no fuss up do ideal for wearing to the office or even to Church on Sundays! This was one of my first videos and the soundtrack is lovingly provided by my baby boy, so enjoy!










7 things the Natural Hair that falls off your head can tell you



Do you know that to get any information about your own hair, and I mean any information, all you need is to examine those strands of hair that fall off your head before you decide to chuck them into the bin? Trust me, that hair can say a whole lot to you. So here are some examples of what the hair that falls off our head can tell us. I must mention that most of these applies only to Natural ladies, as relaxed hair has been altered by chemicals and doesn't tell a true story.


1. The fallen hair tells you whether your is shedding or breaking. I am sure this is the most important point for ladies who want to retain length. How will you know whether your hair is shedding or breaking if you don't examine it. Hair shedding is normal, but when it is breaking, you know you have some work to do. So how do you tell the difference between the two? The first way is to examine the length of the hair. If it is as long as your average length, it is most probably shedding, so don't fret too much. If it is mostly short, then it is breaking. A more accurate way to determine this is to look at the root of the hair strand closely. If there is a white bulb, it is shed hair, else it is broken hair. Formerly, I just could not see any white bulb. I guess I wasn't just patient enough to examine it closely. But trust me, it is always at the root of shed hair. If hair is shed, just take it as normal, and don't fret too much, unless it is excessive.

2. The fallen hair tells you the level of your protein-moisture balance. When you pull a strand of shed hair to its full length, and leave it to curl up, its behaviour can tell you a lot of things. Just read the tips below to understand the protein-moisture balance of your hair. 


From science of black hair
(When Wet or Dry) Stretches slightly and returns to its original length without breaking, you are balanced! Stick with maintaining!
(When Wet or Dry) Stretches a little more than normal then breaks, you need more protein in your regimen.
(When Wet or Dry)Stretches, stretches, stretches with no significant breakage yet, add a bit more protein to your regimen.
(Wet)- Feels weak, gummy, mushy, or limp, you need to add more protein to your regimen.
(Wet or Dry) Experiences very little to no stretching, and simply snaps or breaks, you need to increase the moisture in your regimen.
(Dry) Feels rough, tough, hard, dry, tangly, brittle, or any combination of those, you need more moisture in your regimen.
Tips gotten from http://hairscapades.com/2011/11/30/moisture-protein-finding-the-balance/

3. The fallen hair tells you when you begin to experience unusual hair loss. One would think this would be obvious, but it wouldn't if you are not observing closely. Some people might even think they are losing too much hair when their shedding is just normal. What I do is that, just like Kimmay Tube, I keep all the hair that falls out of my hair when washing, detangling, and styling. I record the dates, and what I used on the hair. This way, if there is any unusual hair loss, I can know, and begin to investigate the cause. This has reduced any unnecessary paranoia on my part. Towards the end of last year, when I had a bad hair damage, it was this process that actually confirmed my suspicions.

4. The fallen hair lets you know your hair porosity. One of the reasons why people's hair react differently in the same situation, and to different products is because of hair porosity. You can always test the porosity of your hair by conducting a strand test on the strands that fall off your hair. Please, always conduct the strand test on freshly  washed hair. Don't know how to carry out this test? Just click here for more info. 

5. The fallen hair lets you know if you have excessive split ends and single strand knots. This is very important, especially for people who don't trim regularly or don't do protective styles often. Also sometimes, we may run our hands through our hair, and not feel the knots because of the fullness of the hair. Sometimes, your hair might not be long enough for you to stretch to the level where you can examine with your eyes. You can determine if you are battling with excessive split ends and single strand knots by examining your shed hair. This should let you know it is time for you to just chill out or go and have a trim.

6. The fallen hair lets you know your hair type. For people interested in the hair typing system, you can determine your hair type by examining the curl pattern of your fallen strands very closely. This gets even more interesting if you have several hair types on your head. Some people even have as much as four hair types. Examine the curl pattern of the shed hair from different parts of your head. Compare and contrast the kinks, springs, coils, and curls, and know where you fall, if you are interested.

7. The fallen hair lets you know the thickness of your hair. Hair thickness is categorised in three different ways: Fine, medium, and coarse. Also you can have different levels on thickness just on one head, so if you want to examine it, be sure to capture all parts of your head. I, for example, have baby hair (fine) round the circumference of my head, while my middle hair is thick. I have all three kinds on my head. To determine what category you fall into, examine a single strand. If the thickness is similar to that of a sewing thread, it is medium. If it is thinner, it is fine, and if it is thicker, it is coarse. This factor is also a great contribution to why people's hair behaves differently.

I believe there are other things our fallen hair can tell us, but I guess this is enough for now. If you have any more points to add, let us know in the comment box.

One thing we can take from this post is that people's hair are different, and now we know why what worked for Tola may not work for Tolu. So know your hair, and find what it likes. But how will you know your hair if you do not examine the fallen ones?

6 reasons why I can't afford a Stylist for my Natural Hair

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As a Mane Captain, I have to be in complete control of my hair. This means being in charge of the styling, treatments and handling of my tresses. In the last 4 years that i've been natural, I can say that i've only been to the stylist about 10 times in total, only once in the last 1.5years. I am finding that the longer I am Natural, the less dependent I am on a stylist and the better my hair styling skills gets.

So, why can't I afford to go to the stylist? 

1. Most of them braid too tight and are always too aggressive with my hair. In the 7 years that I had my hair relaxed, I only applied relaxer in my hair about twice a year. This means that my roots were always coarse, dry and very difficult to comb. And because I didn't know the basics of haircare (deep conditioning and moisturizing), I would neglect my roots and only comb the relaxed part. So by the time I get to the stylist, my roots would be so matted and tangled that it's difficult to work with. This made my hairstylists angry at me and my hair, and would take out their frustration on my hair by tearing through and aggressively combing it with a fine tooth comb. An educated and compassionate stylist would have applied a leave-in conditioner on my hair and advice me to do the same at home, instead, they would always tell me to relax my roots before coming. Although I always came out with a nice hairstyle, I would always loose huge chunks of hair, no wonder my hair never grew past my chin!  
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2. EVERY hairstylist that have styled my hair is IGNORANT and not willing to be educated by their client. In the short time that i've been to the hairstylist, NONE of them gave me a haircare tip, not even on the basics such as washing, deep conditioning and moisturizing. To give two examples, one of my long time hairstylist told me to buy a scented hair oil to spray on my scalp once my weave starts to get stinky. I cringed and taught "shouldn't you be telling me to wash my hair instead of masking it with a scent?". Another example is of another stylist who told me that I had applied too much oil on my hair because it was too slippery for her to handle and I should have came with dry hair.
Ignorant stylists can set you back on your healthy hair jounrney either by brading your hair so tight that you end up with traction alopecia, dry comb and break off all the hair you managed to retain in your last 2months protective style challenge, or apply a damaging product on your hair without your permission.

3. Many Black hair stylists are still inexperienced when it comes to Natural hair styling, and would prefer not to style our hair. The few that are experienced and LOVE styling natural hair can be few and far in between, and if you live in a city with very few Blacks, they might not even exist. Luckily for me, I live in a big city with many Natural hair salons and so I have the option to pick and chooose. However, bad reviews from other Naturalistas on Natural hair salons have prevented me from going to one. Since I would like to grow my hair long, I'd rather style my hair at home and avoid being someone's guinea pig.
4. I don't have the time to prep my hair to be styled by a stylist. No matter how experienced a stylist may be with Natural hair, it's always advised to go with stretched and combed hair so that it's easier to manipulate and handle. Hair that's in this "friendly" form is quicker and easier to style, resulting in a painfree and breakage free styling session.
The only problem with this is that in order to get my hair in a "friendly" state, I would have to spend about 2hours doing a blowout, which I could have spent twisting or flat twsiting my hair up for the week or two weeks. Other stretching method such as braiding and flat twisting doesn't stretch my hair enough and I might have to re-braid my hair over the course of 2-3days to get it to be perfectly stretched. And to perfectly detangle my har, I'd have to spend extra time combing it prior to going to the stylist. As I don't like to comb my hair too often, I figure the only way I could avoid a comb is for me to style my hair myself.

Speaking about time, I also don't have the time to sit and wait around for hours at the salon. So instead of wasting my time going to the stylist and waiting to get my hair done, I could just easily put in marley twists in under 4hours.
5. I just dont want to fork out the cash. As we all know, Black haircare is VERY expensive and can cost up to thousands of dollars yearly. To proof this point, I kept a record of my haircare expenses in 2008 and discovered that I spent about $500 on my hair in that year, this expenses included hair products and synthetic hair that were used on my hair during that year. Because I only knew how to wash and plait my hair, I HAD to go to the stylist every 2-3 months, with each visit costing an average of $80. This was a problem for me because I was a student and shouldn't be spending that much on hair. With hair care gurus, I have been able to master the art of hairstyling and thus save hundreds of dollars. This has also given me some allowance to buy and experiment different hair products, epecially the ones with reduced chemicals. What's also great about this is that these products sometimes lasts me for about a year! Also, I no longer see myself paying someone to tear my hair, destroying all my hard work and putting me through pain.

6. I can't afford any setback. As  mentioned in the first two points, ignorant stylists can make you loose the hair you've worked so hard to retain in the last few months in just one styling session. Since I am my own stylist, I can tell when a particular style is too tight and adjust accordingly, I can also choose to use my finger as the main tool and skip the comb in order to keep more hair on my head and less on the floor, even if this means a less perfect hairstyle. Being a Mane Captain has helped me retain most of the hair that SLOWLY grows out of my head.

Now, I am not saying that I will never go to the stylist because I'm aware that certain styles such as cornrows (ghana/basket weaving) will still need to be styled by someone. And so, I wouldn't mind spending some extra time at home stretching my hair and paying a highly rated natural hairstylist to style my hair every once in a while.

How often do you go to the stylist? How many times have you been this year? Are you The Mane Captain of your tresses?



The Mane Captain

Braids Take-down for Natural Hair

Hiya!

How's your week been? I hope it's been good. For the past 2 weeks I've talked about getting braids done - what to do before you braid, how to take care of your hair while in braids... and now I'm going to address the steps that should be taken when removing your braids. (I just took mine out on Wednesday)


  1. CONDITION/MOISTURIZE
    The first thing you need to do is make sure you condition your hair. This adds moisture to your hair and softens it, making it easier for the braids to slip off. On my part, I made a mixture of leave-in conditioner, olive oil and water in my spray bottle. I took care to spray from different angles, and to ensure that I reached every part of my hair. Some people do this step the day before, but I did mine a couple of hours beforehand
  2. LOOSEN
    Coat your hands with oil before taking your braids off. This ensures that you have a good amount of slip, while it also helps keep your hair moisturized.
  3. DETANGLE
    Now comes the hard part. If you've had the braids in for a long time, then your hair might have matted together, or your roots are clumped due to product buildup. Gently detangle your hair using your preferred method - finger detangling, or with a wide-tooth comb. Make sure to remove any knots gently, so that you minimize hair breakage.
  4. WASH
    Once your hair's been adequately detangled, you need to wash the dirt and products out. Some may choose to do an ACV rinse or use a clarifying shampoo, to tackle the product buildup. In addition, if you wash your hair in sections, you may do so.
  5. USUAL REGIMEN
    Finally, your hair's clean and you can go back to your usual regimen of moisturizing, sealing and putting in protective styles (or wearing your hair out). I typically like to let my hair breathe after it's been hidden for a while. This time though, I've had to redo my custom wig, which I will be wearing for a play at church this Sunday. So my hair's back in hiding. I honestly can't wait to take off my wig (which is temporarily sewn onto my cornrows) after Sunday. 
PLEASE NOTE: There WILL be some breakage. The key here is to minimize the amount of breakage that you might have experienced. 

Have a wonderful weekend.

Diary of an Honest Naturalista: Week 10

It just occurred to me that I have never actually mentioned what I do for a living in this diary, not like I do much anyway. I am actually working in a small scale company, while awaiting NYSC. Yesterday, a colleague of mine told me that the reason why I am free to carry my natural hair the way I do is because I have not started working full time in one of those big companies. I did not even bother to dignify his comment with a response. I have learnt to pick my battles, when it comes to this natural hair issue.

When I got home, I thought about his comment. Before then, I had never actually giving a thought to how I would style my natural hair when I start working professionally, or how it would be perceived in such environments. I have a friend in Nigeria, who never even bothered applying to a bank for work, because she had dreadlocks on. She ended up working in one of the Big 4 auditing and consulting companies, since they were not really fazed about her locks, as long as she kept it neat. I am just sure if I am ready to make such sacrifice for my natural hair. And to think of going back to weaves and harmful extensions… Oh, I’ll rather not think about it. Damn this colleague for sending me down this thought lane.

Moving on to more sanguine matters, remember my date in this post? Well, it is official. We are now an item. Of course, I am the first natural hair lady he’s been with. I hope he doesn’t get discouraged when he runs his hands through my hair, and ends up with coconut and castor oil residue. I can imagine the look on his face if his hands gets wet after touching my hair, and he’ll wonder where the water came from, not knowing I had probably put too much glycerine, and called on river Niger to reside in my hair, lol. He is just a little bit taller than me, but I would pay any amount to see the look on his face when I occasionally become taller than him, by the time I am able to rock a giant afro. I know, I know… I am being mischievous, right? Well, at least, I have gotten myself out of the previous melancholy my colleague brought on me.

So, what’s his name? I’ll tell you soon.

Mane matters with Ibukun Akinnawo

Good Morning Naturalistas, 

I want to introduce you to Ibukun, she just did a BC and she is excited about her natural hair journey. Enjoy her interview.




AN: Can you tell us who you are and what you do?


Ibukun: Hello! I'm Ibukun Akinnawo. I'm a Music major at University of Lagos, most of the time. Sometimes I write freelance and model, but I'm really just a simple girl who loves good coffee, the mall, meaningful conversations, blogging and God.

AN: How did you hear about African Naturalistas?

Ibukun: My friend, Tomi Ajayi, told me about African Naturalistas

AN: How long have you had your natural hair?

Ibukun: I've been completely natural for about a week now. But I transitioned from January till last week so I like to think I've been natural for about 8 months.


AN: Why did you decide to go natural?

Ibukun: Well, partly because I'm pretty impulsive and adventurous and heaven knows I'm sick of going to the salon and spending so much money on my hair every 3 weeks. I figured it would be cheaper and easier to manage my hair by myself. Now I won't have it any other way. Plus with the support I've been getting from a couple of naturals in my life is a huge blessing.

AN: Did you do a BC or you transitioned?

 Ibukun: I transitioned then chopped


AN: What was your BC experience like?

Ibukun: I was excited to see what I'd look like without the hair I struggled to grow out for 2 years. None of that I'm-not-sure-i'm-making-the-right-decision vibe. I had my friend, Tomi, cut it for me right after lunch.



AN: What was/is your biggest fear about going Natural?

Ibukun: My biggest fear was that I'd look horrible with natural hair. When I mentioned it to a couple of people in my life, they strongly advised against it, so I learned to keep my mouth shut some. I overcame the fear after I found out it was a popular one. And I'm glad I did. Another one was the fear that this would become a religion for me. I hear some people talk about their hair like it's their significant other- I couldn't deal with that. I don't want to be the girl that's constantly blogging, tweeting, talking about her hair. So I'm going to try not to go overboard with it.

AN: Do you think you are in it for the long haul or is it just a phase?

 Ibukun: Definitely long haul

AN: Whats your must have product and accessory?

Ibukun: Um right now I'd say my moisturizer (aka my water and oils). I'm not a sucker for anything else yet. But I love my ankara bow. I got it at the last NITC meet-up *grin*


AN: Whats you advice to anyone planning to ditch relaxers?

Ibukun: Just do it. Don't over analyse it. Don't over think it and don't tell everybody.

AN: Thank you for your time

Ibukun: You're absolutely welcome!

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