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I get a lot of statement like ‘Oh, I cannot wait for
my natural hair to be long and full like yours. If only my natural hair were
this long,’ etc. Apart from the fact that my hair is not that long, and I
really doubt that I should be anyone’s hair model now, I always tell them not
to be too eager, and say ‘Enjoy your short hair while it lasts.’ At this point,
they feel it is because I am trying to make them feel better, but really, it is
because as your hair grows in its natural state, the more time, attention,
care, etc, it would require from you. I also think short hair is cute, which I also tell them
Here are a few things that are sure to require more
care and time as your hair grows longer.
Washing – This would take longer. You wouldn’t be able
to wash your natural hair in one big lump again. To wash effectively, you would
have to section it before washing. This increases your wash time to at least, three
times the normal washing time.
Detangling - Carefully loosing and finger-detangling
long full hair takes about 1 hour and more.
Making your hair - Obvious right? Putting your hair in
those twists or other protective styles would definitely take longer.
Combing your hair- You can just comb your natural hair
anyhow when it’s not too long, so far it is a little bit damp. This is because the
comb will not encounter too many potential breaking points, since the strands
are short. But once your hair gets longer, because of more breaking points,
combing takes more time, requires more skill, and is sometimes completely
avoided.
Wearing your hair out - You get to wear your hair out
less when it’s long because your afro has a higher risk of being matted up, and
your hair is prone to more breakage than usual. Wearing long hair in afro takes
a lot of preparation and reparation, should any weather damage be done to the
hair.
Basically, when you hair is long and natural, you have
to treat it as gently as you treat an egg
So yes, I know you cannot wait for your hair to be as
long as that of Kimmaytube, but enjoy it while it is short, because the more it
grows, the more attention it would require. Failure to give it that attention
would send it back to that short length, which ironically, is what you are trying
to get away from.
P.S: Sorry for the late information, but we at African Naturalistas have tagged the month February as 'For the love of Fros', and have been sharing lovely pictures of fros to inspore you in your natural hair journey. To enjoy them, go to our facebook page here, like it, and be inspired by what you see.
P.S: Sorry for the late information, but we at African Naturalistas have tagged the month February as 'For the love of Fros', and have been sharing lovely pictures of fros to inspore you in your natural hair journey. To enjoy them, go to our facebook page here, like it, and be inspired by what you see.
You know, I still sometimes flirt with the idea of cutting my hair again. It was so easy earlier on :)
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